Have you ever asked for constructive criticism on some model making forum? Or maybe you got it without asking for? Don't you have a feeling that 'constructive criticism' phrase is overused these days?
Let's have a closer look at this matter and find out what actually constructive criticism is, as well as how to provide and receive it. Wikipedia defines constructive criticism as 'the process of offering valid and well-reasoned opinions about the work of others, usually involving both positive and negative comments, in a friendly manner rather than an oppositional one'. But how often do you feel upbuilded when your model is criticized? More likely you feel underappreciated and discouraged. Although you are well aware of most good and bad things in your model, people seem to focus only on negative points. Isn't it because being sarcastic is trendy? Critics who follow such patterns often want to highlight their bright intellect, minding the audience more than the criticized modeler's sake. On the other hand such attitude is so common that even when receiving constructive criticism people sometimes become defensive. Mostly it leads to aggressive response but adopting passive, resigned attitude by some more sensitive individuals is often observed.
What should you do if you want to provide constructive criticism to some other modeler in a model making forum? Remember that lacking face-to-face contact, constructive criticism can be easily misinterpreted. Friendly online dialogues sometimes get out of hand and become mud battles. If you want to help some less skilled modeler - your posts should contain soft language with a little inclusion of positive comments. Surely giving some tips or advising how to improve things will prove your good will. If you ever encounter a defensive or even aggressive person, remember not to let your remarks become negative nagging. Perceptive approach brings much better results.
And what should you do if you want to receive constructive criticism? First think if you really want your model to be criticized and if you are ready to get advices. If so, then you need to focus on constructive elements of the criticism. Even if you receive harsh comments and feel hammered by strong words - try to rephrase them into more polite manner to have a clear view on the message instead of its form. If you adopt an open attitude to criticism and use provided help, you may notice constant progress in producing better and better models and developing your interpersonal skills.
